Unhappy holidays for some

Well, it is that time of year again. Across the land, thousands of children are pretending to be asleep - waiting, bleary eyed, for santa to show up. In Australia/New Zealand, they have already ripped through the gifts, and of course, most of the kids of Northern Europe, who opened their gifts on the 24th, have already managed to break a substantial portion of theirs. People who celebrate different holidays have of course long since given, received, opened, broken, and returned their gifts. Parents, meanwhile, are lamenting the fact that they can no longer hold the threat of santa not showing up over their children; as grandparents all over the world make it so obviously clear that it matters little just how rotten the kids are; santa still comes to them. Good thing there is still the threat of leaving your kid screaming in the aisles of the local Walmart.

All this signifies something much deeper, and no, it is not that mom's and dad's just lost, for another 11.5 months or so, the only method they have of controlling their children. It signifies that we haven't truly managed to impart the meaning of kindness and the spirit of compassion in what we do. It is apparently something we practice just once a year, primarily to people we know, and partially through gift boxes put up in the supermarkets, instead of thinking about what we can do to make life better for others throughout the year. As a counterpoint, there wasa stunning amount of kindness shown in the aftermath of the recent terrible windstorms that left somewhere around four million people without power around the Pacific Northwest. We, and everyone else who were without power for less than the eight days we were, or longer, are extremely grateful. If we could only somehow bottle and retransmit that type of compassion... Once upon a time, a politician talked about compassion. That was before he got elected, whereupon he rapidly decided to show that compassion by going and attacking various small defenseless countries, who obviously needed some true christmas spirit, a different system of government, and, according to what seems like a disturbingly increasing contingent in the U.S. government, a different faith. To date, about 600,000 people have succumbed to that type of compassion.

The spirit of the holidays did not reach all this year. MSNBC had a gem in their usual "Picture of the Year" competition, which, much in keeping with the spirit that seems to be imbuing the United Nations, the U.S. Congress, and the European Parliament, does not contain a single picture depicting the horrors inflicted on the poor people of Darfur. (One could include the White House in that list, but in the case of the aforementioned it seems to be a case of knowing, passive neglect, whereas with the latter it has not even reached that stage; probably because there is no oil there). The competition, of course, seems to have more sports pictures than actual news shots, which makes some amount of sense, because living vicariously through the imaginary triumphs and tribulations of a few overpaid, underworked, and for the most part utterly useless high-school dropouts, is much easier than facing what really happens out there. The competition also had one of the best pictures I have seen in a long time though: http://in.news.yahoo.com/060201/137/62atg.html, taken by Adel Halim. It truly showing what life is like for some. We have so far to go.

Another year has passed, and as we can see all around us, poignantly so in the information security world, where there has been a marked shift away from the hacks for fame, toward the zero-day based hacks for profit and national supremacy. That world has at least changed. But, it is a crab-eat-crab world out there still. It seems hardly better than it was, and too few people still seem focused on leaving it a better place than it was when they came into it.

Talking about crab-eat-crab though, I got a picture showing just that when I went diving with George today. It seems a fitting metaphor for what happened in 2006.

Published Sun, Dec 24 2006 9:42 PM by jesper

Comments

# Susan said on 25 December, 2006 10:58 PM

Someone posted this as a comment to my blog the other day... I think it fits here as well...

http://msmvps.com/blogs/bradley/archive/2006/12/19/for-the-record.aspx#433972

desiderata - by max ehrmann

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Max Ehrmann c.1920

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The new year is just around the corner, tomorrow's a new day...and good (and smart) guys like you are still here and still making us think and not accept the status quo and helping us in our journey.

I'd say that too means something.

# Adam said on 26 December, 2006 04:14 PM

I was pleased to read your message, and I agree about the picture of the boy "bathing" in the bucket.  Such a powerful image.

With the profile and readship you have, it seems to me you have a prime opportunity to continue to draw people's attention to such important issues... it won't do much for your readership however.  Now there's an issue for your conscience...

Seasons greetings Jesper... from an English lad so very miserable about the dire state of humanity (not to mention the ecosystem upon which we rely to survive...)